My husband, dolcedomum, got me reading his site, and I got tired of writing furtive anonymous comments. I decided to have an identity of my own. Now I post ten times as much as he does. Go figure. I'm fortysomething, happily married, own two well-loved cats, no kids. I'm a nurse who spends her nights helping women give birth. The other part of the name pearlbirth comes from the meaning of my name.